a waNdereR's Love

d UgLineSs's a beaUty!

Tuesday, November 29, 2005

weeKend waS a hectiC oNe. werK, 2 weddiNgz & lasT koPek fer jaLan raYa. waD a bLast; bLasted my enerGy as weLL & i m freaKing paNcit.

i haVe to bLog dis doWn. sumtinG@werK moVed me muCh; i teaRed aFter my sessiOn. gaWd. u duN get taT ofTen frOm me. usuaLi cLients' waTer d pLace, noT werKers. *griNzz* bUt ya laH, taK leRr saMpai baNjir kaT fsC tuh.

i saW 2 peopLe froM 2 differeNt werLds. 2 diFfereNt ideaLz, personaLities, vaLues n beLiefs. BottoMliNe is...d middLe-aGed coupLe is laiN giLerrrrRrr!!!! berBeza sangaT2..naK kaTa laNgit daN buMi..@leaSt laNgit & buMi compLement each otHer. taPi niE..perbedaaN dIEr tuhh.. taK dapaT ku ukirkaN deNgan kaTa2. tiNk u haVe 2b in sessiOn wif me to understand iT.

diffeRent. tHey R.

iTs inTeresTing hOw paRentiNg a chiLd caN briNg oUt issUes iN a couPle's maRriaGe.

i feLt d tenSion & undercurreNts duriNg d sessiOn betWeen He & sHe. untaLLied, irreLevant resPonses weRe giVen to Me. eaCh waNted 2 briNg oUt theiR poiNts acroSs.

i'M nOt suRe whO woN & whO losT. it waSn't staLemate eitHer.

n deN it caMe ouT.

i was moVed..at her beLief taT he was capabLe of chaNge. desPite d differeNces & d negatiVes, sHe SEEKED waD waS posiTive in Him. d posItiVes weRe coUntabLe wiF oNe haNd; whiLst d LIst of negaTives were beYond lisTing.

sHe waS gratefuL & tenkfuL fOr d posItiVe of hiM. sHe did nOt heaR d voiCes oF oThers whO enCouraGEd d piLLars of her marriaGe to crumbLe. onLi nOW, sHe beGins to sEe chAnge.

He seeMed duMbfouNded taT sHe mentiOned hOw shE heLd oN to his strenGths. i hoPed he appreciate it.

fOR taT moMent in d sessiOn, i saW 2 werLds merGe & compLemeNt each otHer.

i teaRed a bIt 'coS i waS gentLy remInded oF hOw so ofTen we, or raTher, myseLf geT agitaTed aT neGatives & larGe differeNces. iTz sO harD to aPPreciaTe & seeK beaUty, weN our miNd's so cLoudeD bY disPleaSure & unhaPpineSs oVer unMet neeDs/waNts.

iT is haRd. bUt seeKing taT beaUty maY b d keY to oUr haPpinEss & senSe of eaSe. kiNda iroNic ryT? beautY of d ugLy. hOw dO u do taT?

surMountabLe amount Of faiTh & toLeRance. pLus hiGh abiLity to forGive.

sHeesh. i LacK a fair amouT of everYthing. gaWd. rAbakz.

hMmmm..d oTher reasOn y i teaRed waS becaUse i sOunded reaLi diFferent in d sessiOn. iT waS faJ in d sessIon, yeT it waS a differeNt faJ. d tiNgs i saiD, d persPectiVe i gaVe. i gave deM a differeNt voicE, yeT He & sHe aPpreciaTed Me. deY seeM 2 aPpreciaTe me More thaN maNy otHers.

*faJ wuNders*

greaT leSson of liFe to begiN my weeKend wiF. iTz aLL abOut diFfereNces & leaRning to aPpreciaTe deM.

iS taT waD maK & paK is hoLding oN to aLL dis whiLe?? hMmm..neVa miNd.

lessOn leaRnt. deY lefT d rOom.

s(he) leFt.

sEe U d neXt tyM roUnd.

-thOughTz sPoKen @ 3:50 PM :)