a waNdereR's Love

oF lOOks & luRve

Wednesday, November 23, 2005

a tOt juz caMe to mY miNd aFter my earLy aFternOOn conversatioN wiF a deaR freN. swiTheaRt, hoPe u're not offeNdeD taT i'm poSting diS heRe. iT juz caMe to my miNd & i toT iT was a werThy tOt to sHare oN my bLoggie. nO werrIEs, no naMes mentiOned.

.oF looKz & lurVe.

is It juZ an ideaL taT weN u loVe sumBody, u shouLd accePt deM as deY r? uR partner's weaKnessEs, maJor chaRacter fLaws, idiOsyncraciEs, fetIshEs, pHysicaL appeaRances etC...

waD dO u dO weN ur partNer teLLs U taT u NeEd to loSe weIght, b moRe liKe a baBe/hunK be'cOs itS imporTant to hiM/her?

*oUucHh*

waD haPPened to "aCcept mE as i Am"? waD haPpened tO "oPposites aTTraCt"? waD haPpenEd tO "yoU & mE compLemeNt each otHer"?

*faJ poNderZ*

i caNnot fathoM d huRt weN onE heaRs suCh reMArks frOm theiR paRtner aFter beiNg in d reLationshiP foR quiTe sum tyM. suDdenLy, looKs becaMe oNe of D pertiNent issUe in the loVe storY.

*doubLe oUUcch*

So waD do u dO nexT?

dO u geT appaLLed & weeP oVer d hurtfuL remaRks? dO u accEpt his/Her werDs & trY to dO waD's beeN toLd jUZ be'coS he/She saY so, eveN thoUgh iTs nOt waD u reaLi feeL liKe doinG?

Is d chaNge iN youR inTeresT or d paRtner's inTeresT theN?

hMmmm..tuFF oNe to craCk huH?

no doUbt, physicaL attraCtioN iS oNe of d maNy reasOns/wayS/ beGinniNgz couPles get toGether.

buT shouLd it b d baSis of d reLationshiP den? should iT eveN b a reasOn fOr inseCuritieS in d reLationshiP?

loVe is not a coMproMise. trUe, u caN't aLways haVe ur waY in a reLatioNshiP. u coMproMiSe on ceRtain decisiOns, neeDs & waNtz. bUt ur owN beLiefs, vaLues & princiPles? dOeS taT requiRe coMproMise? Or raTher respect?

lOoks & phYsicaL appearAnceS r But traNsient in naTure. U faLl in loVe, geT marriEd, haVe kIDs...ur lOoks & bodiLy feaTures chAnges tOo.

deN, sUm saY, d esseNce of a reLationShip is to keeP eaCh otHer haPpy; or@leaSt trY to maKe deM hePi. sO JAga-iNg ur LooKs n physicaL appearance is ImpoRtant to soMe.

hMmm..duNno laH eH. raMbut saMa hitaM, haTi laiN-Lain. diFfereNt reLatioNshipS stAnd oN diFferenT piLLars.

i liKed waD huMaira saId weN i sHared d tot wiF heR..:

"a change is never easy wen someone force unto u.. even if u're able to abide to that change, human beings are never satisfied... sampai biler nak tukar just to make him puas hati?"

Hmmm...oF looKs & oF luRvee..

-thOughTz sPoKen @ 6:58 AM :)